Infj and infj dating
There are a number of things one should know before jumping head first into a relationship with an INFJ – not all of them necessarily negative, but needed to know before you can move into a more serious phase and a deeper understanding of the relationship: INFJs do not want something temporary that can dwindle away with the first indication of a strong, potentially stormy wind that blows in its direction.
We seek soul mates, those with whom we can connect on a spiritual, emotional and intellectual level.
We are good readers of situations and people and if the dynamics of the relationship has changed or if the person fails to give his or her all, we will sense it.
INFJs do not easily give up on a relationship, it is thus that we need you to be honest.
We avoid the elephant in the room and will often wait for the other person to break things off first.
We know we might seem strange to others and because of this awareness we will often feel alone and misunderstood.
If they do, they will not see us hanging around for long, if at all.
This was a major pet peeve in one of my relationships and in the end contributed to some of my own insecurities.
It is wise to know when to let us creep back in and to just let us be, allowing us to sort through our thoughts and emotions, but it is also wise to know when we need that helping hand to pull us back into the light. If you are an INFJ, let us know how you find your relationship to be like and if you were lucky enough to find the one that dances with you through the rain, the one whose love roars louder than your demons; the one who knows how to make you feel both secure and wild. You can, however, maximize each and every second you spend.
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