Online dating guys disappear
You drive across town to a casual but nice restaurant.
He makes charming conversation, laughing at your jokes and saying very little about his job.
Perhaps he wants to go forward and she says, “I’m not sure about the landscaping.” It’s okay; and this is the perfect time for both of you to be picky and take your time.
Why doesn’t he call and tell you that he has no physical attraction to you?
But ultimately, it doesn’t matter why a person disappears.
It isn’t uncommon for the two people involved to come to different conclusions about the “escrow stage” of dating.
After dinner, you stroll and chat about your hopes and dreams.
It almost feels like you’ve known him your entire life. They have fears and past traumas that are too numerous to count.
We all hope to be forgiven for our minor indiscretions ("I’m busy", "I’m late", "I forgot"), but we don’t want to do much forgiving ourselves. Matt’s email has inspired me to write a longer piece on this for Match.com, but here are a few of the perfectly reasonable reasons that a woman (or a man) might not write back to you.
She’s busy She’s just not that into you She no longer has a subscription She’s seeing a bunch of other people She got serious with someone else She’s out of town on business/vacation She’s got personal issues – health, family, etc.